Cosmo sex position of the day: hamstring hell

You should have seen the look on my face when last night’s sex position popped up on my iPhone. I mean what the fuck? Don’t figure skaters and professional ballroom dancers practice for years to achieve this position and Cosmo just wants me to whip my leg up over my head and climb on board? […]

The Cosmopolitan in Vegas: the hotel that cares about your orgasm!

It’s something I look for in every hotel gift shop. Yup, vibrators. Traveling with vibrators is tricky when you are flying with carry on only. It’s possible the shape and electronics could trigger interest at security. Visions of standing by in abject horror as a TSA agent pulls out your Lelo G spot and says […]

In Alabama only men have a constitutional right to orgasm

It is illegal to sell vibrators in Alabama. That’s right, according to the Anti-Obscenity Enforcement Act of 1998 selling sex toys in the, ahem, Yellowhammer State is a criminal act (Yellowhammer just sounds like the name of a vibrator, doesn’t it?)  Sex toy meaning any device designed or marketed primarily for the stimulation of human genital organs. In […]

Cosmo’s sex position of the day: nothing brings sexy back more than “put your head on the floor”

“I want to make mad, passionate love to you, so let me grab a pillow and put my head on the floor.” And with that, I give you the Head over heels.  Really Cosmo? All I can say is, “Fuck off!” First of all the name. Stop it with the stupid alliteration. Face-to-face-fandango, Wanton wheelbarrow, Head […]

“Head game,” Cosmo’s sex position of the day, may require orthopedic clearance

My review of the Cosmo sex position Face to Face Fandango was such a success I have decided to make this a regular feature of the blog. Because not only do I care about you all having good sex, I also care about your backs and hamstrings. To complete this quest I downloaded Cosmo’s “Sex […]

ArginMax, a supplement for better sex. Evaluating the evidence.

ArginMax is a supplement marketed to improve sexual satisfaction. It contains L-arginine (an amino acid), Gingko biloba, Panax ginseng, American ginseng, Damiana, vitamins A, C, E, and B-complex, zinc, and selenium. The hypothesis is that the ingredients favor the production of nitric oxide, one of the chemicals our bodies make to increase blood flow. Blood […]

Cosmo’s sex position of the day proves they know nothing about good sex or women

I follow Cosmo (the magazine, not the drink) on Twitter. Most of the clothes look like what one might wear if one aspired to be a Real Housewife of Beverly Hills when one grows up; however, Cosmo also likes to tweet sex advice. The “naughtier” stuff comes attached to the #CosmoAfterDark hashtag. Since I’m a […]

Leaking urine during sex…what’s up with that?

You are in the throngs of great sex when all of a sudden there is a new sensation. It takes your brain, very occupied with other things, a few seconds to switch gears and process. And then you realize that you have inadvertently emptied your bladder. This is a real medical problem called coital incontinence. […]

I can only have an orgasm with a vibrator. Is that normal?

I probably get asked this question once a week (and I suspect many more women want to ask, but sadly for some it’s just too hard to discuss vibrators or even orgasms). BTW, the fact that we can be subject to TV ads for Viagra and Cialis during every sporting event, but vibrator ads are […]