Courtesy CDC

Herpes is a sexually transmitted virus that primarily infects the mouth and the genitals. It is transmitted by bodily fluids – penetration isn’t required for transmission, oral-oral or oral-genital contact will suffice.

There are 2 types of sexually transmitted herpes: herpes type 1 and herpes type 2. Both types cause painful cold sores. It used to be that we (doctors and researchers) thought of herpes 1 as primarily infecting the mouth (“above the belt”) and herpes 2 as primarily infecting the genitals (“below the belt”), but we know now that is just not the case. Fifty percent of new cases of genital herpes are actually herpes type 1.

More than 90% of the population is positive for herpes 1 and about 16% is positive for herpes 2, but many people don’t know they are positive, because most people with herpes do not have outbreaks.

While you can transmit either herpes 1 or 2 while you have a cold sore, with herpes of either type, shedding of the virus (being contagious) when you have no symptoms or sores happens on a fairly regular basis. In fact, 70% of transmission of herpes is believed to occur while someone is shedding the virus but has not obvious outbreak. As many people with herpes don’t know they have it, they are unknowingly passing it along and that is why it is so common.

While both herpes 1 and 2 cause the same type of painful cold sore, the key difference between the two types is recurrence risk. While you can certainly get herpes 2 on your lips and herpes 1 on your labia or penis, this is mostly likely going to be a one shot deal. This is because herpes 1 prefers to be “above the belt” and herpes 2 “below the belt.” In a nut shell, herpes 1 on the genitals is far less likely to shed sporadically or give you recurrent cold sores and the same goes for herpes 2 in the mouth. They thrive best in their native habitat.

That’s one of the reasons to get a lesion swabbed on your genitals, to get it typed to see if it is herpes 1 or 2. If it is herpes 1, you are far less likely to shed the virus and have recurrent outbreaks and are also less likely to transmit it to your partner. That information may just give you some piece of mind. If it’s herpes 2, there are ways to deal, and we’ll review that in another blog later this week.

162 replies on “Herpes 101: the difference between herpes type 1 and type 2”

  1. Peace of mind is an understatement!!! Reading this article after finding out my genital herpes is simplex 1 is like a little ray of sunshine through a dark cloud that’s been hanging around far too long!

  2. Um…I know you’re a doctor, but I think this is kind of crap. Does the data really show that only 16% has HSV2? I also think you are misleading about the one-shot deal of HSV1 below the belt- it’s not like someone will only get one outbreak down there and never get an outbreak (or shed down there) again. Sure, one might be prone to less symptoms in the naughty bits with HSV1, but they still are symptomatic.

    And why are you not advocating blood tests to determine HSV1 vs. HSV2? I have HSV2, had an outbreak, it was swabbed, and came back negative. A blood test confirmed it.

    I look forward to further explanation…and reality.

    1. A swab test can come back negative if the lesion is healed, and no longer shedding the virus; even though you still have it. Also blood tests can be inconclusive if the infection is new; thus a negative result in the blood reveals no antibodies are present, even if your lesion culture is positive for HSV1 or 2. The Dr.’s stats are legitimate, as are the detection techniques.

    2. same with me…. i had a herpes outbreak and had it swabbed and it came back negative i think i had an outbreak swabbed two times actually that were negative…. and i was becoming frustrated so i asked the place i was going if its possible to get a blood test done and they told me it wasnt. wth? then when i was pregnant my husband was adamate that he had a blood test done for it… so i demanded it… and low and behold i have type 2.

    3. I had HSV2 back in the 1960’s. Received treatment only a couple times from doctors. That was the only outbreak I had and have not seen any sores or symtoms since then.

    4. I have been diagnosed with HSV-1 (below the belt). in 6 years I have had 2 outbreaks and both were within 3 months of contraction date. I have been with 6 sexual partners since contracting it and all have known that I was positive and all decided to have unprotected sex with me. The most recent is my wife of 3 years and none of my sexual partners have contracted HSV-1 nor have I had an outbreak or any signs of shedding.

    5. There is no blood test for HPV, the lesion must be swabbed. However, there is blood test for HSV, the PCR blood test can tell if you have genital herpes even if you don’t have symptoms. Very true that some patients do not have an outbreak for up to 40 years after diagnosis. It also depends on the person. Some triggers include stress, diet, illness, and SOCIAL LIFE STYLE.

  3. I just got diagnosed with HSV1, and reading this actually made me not feel like crawling up in a little ball and crying like a baby. The outbreak I have right now is genital and in my throat and mouth, I talked to the doctor who did the blood test on me and said over time that it would eventually get much better. She said that what I’m having is a massive outbreak and is unusual, but that it may be due to the fact that I stressed myself out over it so much. She also told me even though I have it in the genital area that It doesnt mean that I needed “private to private” contact to acquire it. But this did make me feel a whole lot better about the whole situation. For anyone else to has HSV1 or 2, I wish you the best of luck πŸ™‚

      1. So that means since I have herpes 1 I had a bad outbreak for the first time back in 2010. I have never seen or had any outbreaks since. What is the likely Hood of another out break.

        P.s the outbreak was gentiles n oral

      2. Hi Doctor,

        I am so glad I found your blog….so helpful.

        I am at a total loss right now…I just received a blood test showing positive for herpes 1, though I have no idea where it is in my body right now. I had a very complicated set of circumstances, and I just can’t figure it out.

        I recently had a new sexual partner. Prior to him I was in monogamous relationships for the last 17 years. The three people I have been with in that time, (including him) have all tested negative for both herpes types very recently.

        Before having sex with the new partner (unprotected for literally 1 minute before he put condom on, and he performed oral sex as well), I was having a little vaginal irritation, and a little tickling…(not tingling) before we had sex. The night before sex I also had vaginal waxing done, and the girl waxed my labia (though I didn’t ask for that) and it was horrific!!! She caused a great deal of trauma, and I think removed some skin.

        The vaginal irriation continued the next day and still continues. I still feel sore in the labia area just like I had ripped my hair out during bikini wax. Then about 2-3 days later I noticed an area that appeared raw in my labia area, it healed very quickly within a day or so.

        By the time I went to the Doctor, there was nothing to see, all healed up. Doctor tried swabbing the genital area anyway, but it came back negative.

        She did find that I had bacterial vaginosis, and she gave me medicine for that, which I have recently finished.

        No other classic symtoms at all….I feel great otherwise. But still sore down there….

        Blood test does show herpes 1, but blood drawn was at 9 days after sex ( and he is negative anyway). Since test was done so quickly after this partner, it leads me to think the virus has been in my body for a long time, (but again partners from 17 yrs all test negative)

        Is it likley that the herpes 1 is in my mouth since all these partners have tested negative?

        The doctor gave me acyclavir to take for 5 days, no change in how I feel. No sores or raw areas at all, but still feeling numb down there like I did after waxing 3 weeks ago.

        I’m totally freaked out and confused. Sorry for the long explanation, but my Doctor has not been very helpful in trying to figure this out with me.

      3. I was told I only have type 2 and I have to take medicine twice a day every day if I miss one day I will have break outs I occasionally have cold sores in the corners of my mouth I don’t know if I have both types of if it’s just cold sores…gets tiring taking medicine everyday!

      4. Ive just left my dr and he told me tht I hve hsv1,2 first I want to know how do they test for this? I had blood work done and a pap…but this was something stocking to me cause ive never been diagnosed with this.i asked him so wht should I take he said if I notice a outbreak then come back but ive never had anykind of outbreak he was talking bout so im confused if I have this why wasnt I given medication

      5. hey doc, u might never get this message becuase u al wrote this in 2012 and it’s 3 weeks from 2015 but here goes….what do you think of DRACO? if you never heard or it PLEASE GOOGLE “THE DRACO CURE”

      6. okay, well I’m having a really hard time reading all of this, because I experience it almost monthly, always genital, but I am often bothered by my condition. I am taking medication and it does not help. I do not know which type I have either.

      7. I have HSV 1 on my genitals and while for a while it wasn’t recurrent, 13 years later I’m having outbreaks every 2 weeks. Everyone is different.

      8. Then I must be a rare case. My problem started 5 months after my husband left me for the woman he had been cheating on me with. This was the sixth woman and it turned out she was the town bicycle who all the men knew and regularly paid for her services. Naturally freaked out i got tested for everything, all of which returned negative including type 2 herpes. I had sores in my mouth literally everywhere. My lips turned into one complete sore. I had it up my nose, on my genitals, and get this, a brown recluse bite scar that had just completely healed two weeks before turned bright red and itchy. I also got little red spots on several of my knuckles. All of this 3 different doctors confirmed was type 1. It happened again 4 months later and again two weeks after that. For almost two years I had no outbreaks and then I got it the night I started my period, 3 weeks later, causing my next period to be almost nonexistent, and again the following period it hit me again. It always hits me in the same places, however this last set of 3 I have had has not been as bad as I knew what was happening and took medicine. It lessens it on my lips and genitals but the spots on my knuckles and spider bite scar stay the same. I does not happen in my mouth or nose anymore. The blood test was clear. It is type 1, so please tell me why I’m different.

    1. i also just got diagnosed with it, not sure if its HSV-1 OR HSV-2, mine is genital, nothing above the belt so far,
      deffinitly stressed about it but before i knew anyting about it and before i knew it was herpes i was picking at the sores in the genitals, and now i believe i have it on my right middle finger, its swollen and hurts…no open sores, but im scared to touch my face incase it is on my finger..what should i do?

  4. I have cried myself to sleep many nights but reading this has brought my partner and I so much peace of mind.

  5. Ok, so my gf has what we believe Herpes 1 at least that is what the doctor think it is. She is taking antibiotics etc to get it to go away. And it is. She had a tiny cold sore in the lips but I kiss her nontheless and i have nothing. She got it we believe from shaving down there and she cut herself then the wound didn’t heal and started looking like a big pimple then it was not one it was various. Also, she got a strep infection. So, the doctor told her that due to the body going thru so much that Herpes 1 (which like you said it is always active on us) outbreak on her already wounded genital area. No, I haven’t tested myself but I seem healthy. So, my question is could I get it? If so how? By fluid exchange, going down on her? And how long until it has fully clear up can I have sex with her again?

      1. OMG……….YOU are sooo ignorant, you probably have it already yourself, don’t you know that 90% of the population have simplex 1??? and they live perfectly normal lives and some never ever get any symptoms unless u have a blood test then you will know. Do your research !!

  6. This has made me feel so much better! I was diagnosed with HSV-1 last week and I was devastated! However knowing this had made me feel happier and much more confident!
    I wish anyone who is diagnosed with either HSV-1 or 2 the best of luck! and just look after yourself! LOVE yourself!

  7. I have HSV 2 and my girlfriend just got diagnosed with HSV 1 after having a below the belt outbreak; is it possible that my HSV 2 gave her HSV 1or would she have to have gotten HSV 1 from someone else?

  8. Dear Doctor;

    Thank you for your ongoing online efforts RE Herpes 1\2 education.

    I have a curious (and quite painful) situation to report and had hoped you could shed some light on it.
    My soon to be ex-wife contracted herpes 1 and 2 while I tested positive for herpes 1 only. This happened immediately after the final time we had sex (which included oral sex.) I HAVE been tested for all other STD’s and am negative, but DID test positive for LGL-Leukemia (so my immune system has been compromised for some time.)
    I can’t explain why or how she got herpes 2 as, again, I tested negative for herpes 2. I have been monogamous since 1994 after various extra-marital affairs. Test results are available should you desire to review them, but two independent MD’s firmly reported I have herpes 1 and NOT 2.

    So my two questions are :

    1: How could she get it and I not have it? Could the LGL combined with shedding of herpes 1 be a factor in my wife’s infection?
    2: Can I keep this from recurring with other partners? Are antivirals effective to limit the potential of further transmission of the virus?

    Confused; Rich S

  9. Isn’t there anyway at all to get ride of herpes 1 at all? I just found out that I have it please tell me there is because I don’t know how I’ll tell my partner πŸ˜₯

    1. U can’t get rid of it, but don’t be afraid, its not gone to ruin your life, u can still live healthy and happy and have a happy sex life, I know because in 2010 I was diagnosed with herpes 1. I have only had one out break n none since, u should tell ur partner because if u have it, where else could u have gotten it from if they are the one who is ur partner, either u or ur partner cheated. Not saying u did, but telling them is better for ur n their health. Good luck sweetie ull be ok

      1. thats not true if you have had oral sex with your partner and he has cold sores that is how you have got it ,l got it that way its just bad luck .

      2. Hello hope u can help me I just found out I have 1 and 2 but never have had a outbreak. .so do that mean I cant have sex I asked my doctor what he was gone give me he said he dont need to give me medicine unless I start to get outbreaks why is this

  10. I have herpes simplex 2 I have never passed it to none of my partners in the past and here it is years later and they still have no symptoms and have been tested. I have to watch out when I have my outbreaks and make sure I do not have sex around that time. I was also able to have my son natural birth with no c-section and here it is 6 yrs later with a healthy boy that does not have herpes. Im famiiar with the shedding stages and I can feel when Im contagious I know that sounds weird but I just had to take the time to learn my body over the years.

    1. be careful please!!!!!!!!! I got type 2 10 years ago. Was in 2 long term relationships- 4 years each. They never got it /had them get blood tests. Then single for 2 years, no sexual partners. Then I find this WONDERFUL GUY and I tell him before we even get into a relationship. I just got THE CALL, he got it. After 2 weeks of sex. I feel really crappy right now as his outbreak is way worse then I ever had. Oh I’ve been on valtrex the WHOLE TIME 500mg once a day. He is understanding as I warned him before, but how bad I feel about it just sucks! I only had one outbreak when I first got it so many years ago. I had no symptoms and still don’t. So just FYI!

    2. I also have herpes simples 2 and I have been extremely worried the last couple of days and your post has given me a little bit better of an understanding and even some peace of mind. The thing ive been most worried about is passing it during childbirth in the future. But thank you for your post.

  11. Hi Dr. Gunter, I know you’re busy but I’m hoping for a response from you. I am a man and I recently had an encounter with a woman during which I performed oral sex on her. Three to four days after the encounter I developed a blister on my upper lip. In the article you mentioned the risk of re-occurrence to be quite low. My question is a) does this mean I will still be infected, and b) Should I be going to the doctor and getting a swab test like you recommended in the case of HSV1 on the genital area? Thank you for your time and reply.

  12. I have type1 and I’m very young… 16 and the doctor told me I infected myself “below the belt” by touching or going to the bathroom ect. And I had one outbreak. My mouth was terrible I could not eat drink or sleep. But genitally I had very few. And right now I have 3 white bumps on my tounge.. Herpes or cold sores??? I’m on medicine everyday to prevent out brakes. And I keep stressing about it because my partner has been having sex with me with NO condom and for a little while now.. What if he has it? He’s not being treated at all..

  13. Hello, my fiance has herpes simplex 1 on his lips. He just recently got them this year. Never had them before. The first time he got it was when he got the flu. Me and him have been trying to be careful he’s even stop giving me oral sex, sharing stuff, and kissing on the mouth when he feels and gets an outbreak. However, my main concern is that we still have sex. Can I still get herpese? I know I’m at high risk because of shedding but because our bodily fluids are getting passed to on another can I still get herpese especially down there? I’m very concern.

  14. Also another question. If a woman has herpes in her cervix, can she still have children. And if yes will the fetus/baby be in danger? And what are sympotoms of herpes in the cervix??

  15. Hi Doctor,

    I just found out that I have the herpes 1 virus today. I’m devastated. I have always been very healthy, and had very recently had a complete blood panel done, all negative. But I understand that herpes is not part of the standard panel, so I may have had this for awhile.

    I just started a new relationship, and the first time we had sex I gave him a condom. I realized he had not put it on. Sex was unprotected for only 1-2 minutes, literally.

    He also performed oral sex for a short period of time.

    Oddly enough I had recently had a bikini wax, and think they may have caused a small abrasion in this area. …so it makes everything very complicated.

    Is it possible that I had the virus in my body before, and the small sore I noticed after our sex had nothing to do with my partner, and possibly was brought on by the bikini waxing? Again, a blood test confirmed that I do have the herpes 1 virus…

    Furthermore, does this mean I should never give or receive oral sex again??

    1. Dr. and Daisy,

      I read both your post and it sounds pretty much like my story. I was married 16 years and in the last four years been in two relationships…this last one, I got sick after spending the weekend with him for the first time. I went to the hospital from being so miserable…diagnosed with Bacterial vagnistis and a UTI. Took all my meds and was cleared up. Went to my OBGYN for a follow up and he did blood work on me because every thing looked fine but wanted to check to be safe. My test came back positive for type 1. Here is the thing, never had a break out-soars or anything. So I am confused about if my test might be a false positive. I am so scared because I dont know how long have a had this…my kids drink from me, etc… I am scared to consider starting any relationships now. I have read on this and it says that you can get it by kissing, using some ones tooth brush, drinking after them. Is this true? I am concerned like the lady that posted this. Can you please respond to our post doctor?

  16. If I conceived a baby when my husband had an active colesore in his mouth ( I have never had hsv1 or hsv2) is the unborn child at risk as hsv1 can be in seminal fluid?
    Please help

  17. VERY IMPORTANT QUESTION: ok so I recently met a wonder, beautiful, & caring young woman. I really like her…she is like my dream girl but just informed me she has herpes type 1. I have not kissed her, had sex, or any contact with her in that manner. I have to kno, what should I do? I mean I have been reading up but hell can I even kiss her, can we have sex both oral & genitally? I just want us to be able to have normal interaction & not contract the virus. I really like her & desperately need answers. I was schocked but didnt just blow her off…i rly like hee but Im scared & dont wanna put myself at risk PLEASE HELP!!!

  18. I have herpes type 1 for 2 weeks now. My girlfriend does know about this and I am very open to her. We both have sex regularly. But I am getting worried my girlfriend has already been infected with it but can’t see any symptoms yet. Question: Should I quit having contact with her? Thanks

  19. some information was left out of this though very informational 1 is that herpies can be passed down geneticly ((though i probly do have it i never had symptoms)) i know my mother had it , my younger sister had it and her oldest son ((who is 8)) has it i rember my younger sister having symptoms sence age 5 but we never knew what itt really was. 2ndly out breaks can be some what controlled by our immune system keep the imune system boosted up and your less likely to get an outbreak most outbreaks occur when our immune system has a drop in how strong it was or supose to be or something weekend it

    i am not a doctor nor an expert on the subject but i have researched it and have had personal expereince with it i hope the information helps calm people down who may be infected and its a pretty common virus OH another thing if you had chicken pox congrats you got another form of herpies ((forget wich one it is)) sooo again very common virus 1 day the whole population will have it and it wont matter

    1. Herpes can not be passed “genetically.” Herpes type 2 can rarely be transferred vertically, from mother to child, during birth. That is why a woman with active genital herpes requires a c-section.

      1. If Herpes 1 antibodies are present in between 58-90% of the population and many in childhood and adolescence -why is it classified as an STD?

  20. Ho I have a cold sore on my lip and usually get these prob twice a year. , but have noticed that I have a couple of sores appear on my penis , which I have never had??? Is it poss I have down there too now?

  21. Trying to get a grip on this. I had an outbreak of a rash onb my back about two years ago and went to the doctor. He looked at it and said it was shingles and gave me some meds. I took them and it all passed. about a year later it came back, I had changed doctors so I went to the new doctor and explained the whole past, she said its was unusual to get shingles twice but said it wasnt impossible. Meds again, and again it passed. then it came back again so I talked to her about and she said its not shingles it herpes and sent blood to get it tested. It came back positive for type 2. I have read a lot about the differences between type 1 and 2, one being the “above the belt” type and 2 being the “below the belt” type.

    I cant figure out how I would get herpes type 2 on my back. Is it possible that both my doctor and the blood test are wrong? If I do in fact have type 2 and the outbreak is on my back can I pass it while having sex? I really confused about this and feel like my social life is done. Im 47 years old and recently divorced. I have been with three women since my divorce (over 4 years ago) unfortunatly I wasnt parcticing safe sex.

    I was married for 14 year and as far as I know my ex never cheated on me and I neve cheater on her. So it had to be one of those three women, correct? Actually one of two as I had my outbreaks before meeting the last one.

    Help me understand this and how I can possible move forward and be in any kind of relationship ever again.

  22. Dear Doctor, i’ve just been diagnosed with herpes & i was wondering is it just contagious where the lesions are located or is my entire penis contagious? I ask to keep my gf safe because she likes to give me oral so we are trying to educate ourselves on the do’s & don’ts because we were wondering is it safe to lick in places that the lesions are not due to the fact that i only have a small spot on the shaft right below the head???? We really would appreciate your feedback…… Thanks in advance!!!

  23. i really dont understand any of this. My blood test came back positive for antibodies for herpes 1. ive never had an outbreak or any other issue i always tested negative . i have been with my girlfirend almost a year and i got tested three months ago and just got the positive results . does this mean she gave it to me.. she has also never had any visible cold sores. my son is four years old and he has drank out of my water and things like that. does that mean he also has it.i havent spoken to her about the results and i honestly have no idea what to do ..please help!!

  24. Me and my partner went to a clinic n they said you could of had it since your first sexual partner, so it doesn’t necessarily mean either of you have cheated

  25. I am a 23 year old female and my boyfriend just told me he got herpes type 1. I have been with him for 3 years. I love him but I am really scared. He has never had any type of breakouts (well I haven’t seen them at all) and we do have sex and oral sex. He told me that the doctor said that its not contagious unless we do oral sex while he has a breakout. But now that I’m reading I’m not that sure. Please somebody help me. I need to know what to do from now on. I don’t want to have herpes or any type of disease. I have always been really careful with stuff like this and I still can’t believe this is happening to me. How about if I have kids with him.. Please help

    1. That is horribly selfish of you to say that “i can’t believe this is happening to me” It isn’t happening to YOU it’s happening to HIM. I am a 23 year old female who was given genital herpes 1 from a person who did not care about me or my well-being. So please be careful on word-choice. Nothing is happening to YOU.

  26. I cut myself shaving and I was sore and then my underwear began to bother me. My partner has herpes 1 so he gets cold sores but he also takes antibiotics for them. we use condoms all of the time and we never have oral sex when he has them. Can you get genital herpes from someones spit without it touching the cold sore and while they’re on antibiotics?

  27. Can Herpes type 2 be detected with a full blood panel or an HIV test? please doctor, let me know. Thank you so much.

  28. Just after a little advice.

    I have the beginning of a cold sore on my top lip I believe (swollen, tingly, and possible a slight blister). I have had them before, but I believe my trigger is my menstral cycle. I have them about ones every year, and the last time I had a cold sore.

    I have recently slept with my girlfriend for the first time. She has never had herpes above or below the belt. I do believe her as she has been with the same guy since she was 15, and now me, so I have no reason not to believe her.

    We slept together on the 24th and 25th, and today is the 26th. I’m wondering if there is any chance she may be infected, or if it’s just when the ‘weeping’ stage of the virus occurs that it is contagious?

    Thank you for reading this, and I eagerly await your reply.

    Kind regards,


  29. Ive been with this man and only him. i get tested for herpes and was told i had h1 and h2. when i let my friend no he goes to get checked his results came back only h1 i remember the nite he gave me oral sex and the next morning i see a cold sore didn”t think anything about it cause i didnt know that they were really herpes.untill i was tested 2 years later. we argue that he didnt give me h2 cause his test only state that he had h1 but i had not been wit anyone eles to have gotten h1 or h2 nor had i ever tested positive for it. so my question is can a person that has tested positive for h1 have oral sex wit partner and those sores of the mouth cause h2?

  30. Dear Dr.,
    I just had my first outbreak, the swab came back negative, so I don’t know whether it is HSV 1 or HSV2. I went on Valtrex and the sore healed up (it was a very small outbreak). Then I had sex with a new partner (about 5 days after finishing the Valtrex) and the condom came off inside me. What are the chances I passed it along? I am feeling terrible about this.

  31. My was recently diagnosed with herpes type 2.
    The cops & cps workers think she was molested since type 2 is mostly a sexualy transmitted disease.
    I honestly don’t think she has been sexualy abused.
    Her father also has herpes type 2.
    Is there anyway way my daughter could have caught the disease from her father without being sexualy abused??
    Oh & my daughter is only 19 months old.

  32. how can you get hsv-2 on the mouth if you never had an oral sex ? can you get hsv-2 on your lips when you were a kid ??
    i always get a cold sore in my lip since i was a kid and i did not know its a virous i thought it comes with the flue but when i read about this virus i thought i have hsv-1 but when i went to do the blood test i found that i have hsv-2 so how come this happens to me ??

    1. I would like to know how can a person get Hsv-2 on the mouth when they haven’t performed oral sex in 2years?

  33. Antibiotics do not work on viruses as they aren’t living like bacteria As such

  34. If someone has HSV 1, and only experience cold sores around the mouth, can they still contract HSV 2 and experience sores around the genital area from someone with HSV 2?

  35. I have a question… both my boyfriend and i have always had HSV1 “above the belt” but not “below the belt” and I had an outbreak and decided to give my boyfriend oral sex and then have regular unprotected sex… is it unlikely that he and i will catch HSV2 or HSV1 “below the belt”??? Because neither of us have HSV1 or HSV2 below the belt. We only have HSV1 above the belt. But since i gave him oral sex with a cold sore outbreak does that mean he now has genital herpes??

    1. Yes he should get type two now. I asked my doctor about that an she said yes when u have type 1 And u have a cold sore n I give oral it turns to type two .. Sorry

      1. No….not true. He would get type 1 down there. Type 1 and type 2 are very different. It doesn’t just turn into type 2 if you have type 1 and give oral with a sore you will get type one down there NOT type 2.

      2. Wrong! Type 1 and 2 re not ver different they are actually very similar. Why do you think you take the same medicine for type 1 and 2 its because it is the same virus one just prefers the mouth while the other prefers genitals. They can both go to either region but if the virus ends up outside the region it prefers it sheds less and causes less outbreaks. Fact! Do some research.

  36. I don’t believe this information is crap! when I was pregnant with my son tests results came back saying I have herpes 1 which I have already had 1 outbreak after my son was born and I will tell you this much its no joke when they say its painful!!!! its hard to even sit!!! anyways! I was having these weird look like pimples around my mouth that would itch really bad my own regular doctor couldn’t even figure out what it was and was going to send me to a determoligist* (which I never went to.. sorry miss spelt) my doctor gave me an ointment that I had to apply and it seemed to work just took a lot of time to heal. (Left a scar from picking at) My boyfriend informed me a few weeks ago that he has herpes 1 and now 2… so im guessing what is around my mouth is herpes 2.. so I believe in this information 10000%

  37. i always come on these threads and smh at the bullshit i read. I had a friend that felt her genital herpes type 1 was insignificant because it was the “good” herpes type …people herpes is fucking herpes, In your mind you can sit there with your fucking cold sores and think you do not have herpes you fucking do and your ass needs to tell anyone you are kissing or giving oral to that you do indeed have herpes. I mean it to say the word herpes do not try to sweep the shit under the rug with those lullaby terms of cold sores or fever blisters use the fucking word herpes. I see people all the time stigmatize herpes type 2 as if these are the only people that absolutely must say something. My other girlfriend sadly has hsv-2 and the social pressure for her to disclose is greater because she supposedly has the “bad” herpes like i said before HERPES IS FUCKING HERPES! Whether you have type 1 or type 2, oral or genital, your ass indeed has a incurable virus that you are carrying around that you are obligated to disclose. please be fucking responsible and please stop trying to down play your type 1 because it’s a “cold sore” ummm no bitch you have herpes and please tell me or anyone else before you partake in sexual play. It’s not only morally right but it is fundamental. I do not care if you got cold sores since you were 6 cause your aunt kissed you, dude you have fucking herpes, I don’t care if you got the “good” herpes from your partners cold sores down south you still have a genital STD now, it’s still herpes no matter how you slice the fucking cake whether it is type 1 or type 2 both are herpes and both are contagious. End this bullshit stigma and be honest. stop down playing it because in the end it doesn’t really fucking matter what type you have both are incurable and both are herpes. stop digging you heads in the damn sand escpecially you hsv-1 people.

    1. Ok, herpes is herpes, we got it. But one can better cope with a cold sore on the mouth than sores on your sensitive genitals. And that my friend makes it very different. I get an occasional cold sore on the corner of my mouth. It sucks, but I’m sure it sucks more to have them down there. I know enough people and friends who have both kinds of herpes, and they are loved and have lovers all the same. We aren’t our dis-eases, and shouldn’t be stigmatized for them. Yes, it’s the right thing to let a new lover-to-be know, and if there is real love and acceptance between the two of you then you’ll find a way to work things out. I have a friend who is in a new relationship with a guy who has genital herpes and she loves him and wants to remain with him, nonetheless. No one’s life is over after a diagnosis. You have to trust that you’ll be OK, no matter what.

      1. Ok if it makes you feel better to say that having a blister on your mouth for EVERYONE to see is coping better then go right on ahead whatever makes you accept your life long sentence. If I had to choose I would take genital anyday because no one can see your outbreak. Instead your walking around with it plastered on your lip. Ewww disgusting. Then on top of that genital is not spread through everyday living like a cold sore cause type 1 can be spread through a simple kiss. Damn at least people with genital can get a little tounge without having to disclose your ass has to say something before a simple kiss…umm no fucking thank you. Granted genitals are sensitive but I would rather have a few uncomfortable days down there then walk around with a herpes breakout on my mouth to ruin my pictures and to spread by drinking out of something. Like i said dont try to down play it honey. You have herpes on your mouth which is a place that is broadcasted. Oh and dont give your bf oral sex because then he would get your shit on your mouth in a sensitive place but instead no one would know he has it.but trust me they know you have herpes with your blistered mouth. I hope your telling your partners.

    2. Well, each to their own. Personally, I live fine with an occasional coldsore near my mouth and have never spread it to others. I'm careful and don't kiss or make contact when I have a blister. Plus, Valtrex does wonders in suppressing. Why are you on this says:

      Well, each to their own. Personally, I live fine with an occasional coldsore near my mouth and have never spread it to others. I’m careful and don’t kiss or make contact when I have a blister. Plus, Valtrex does wonders in suppressing. Why are you on this message board when you are making negative comments toward others living with herpes? If you don’t have herpes then why are you here, to offer support? Cuz I don’t see it. Supportive kind words go a long way and are more appreciated.

    3. LOL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ………calm down everyone will have something in their lifetime, some will never get an outbreak until they are 89 years old, by then who cares !!!!

    4. I don’t care if your girlfriend has HSV, I feel bad that she is with you. You’re a prejudiced insensitive person. Get a life.

    5. misinformed lunatics… that was awesome!!!! I entirely agree. and THANK YOU for stating it the way you did, it is perfect!

  38. Can u believe this… The very same person who got me infected turned my calls after a day and said the only thing that we have in common is our sickness!
    I have diagnosed with hsv1 I have it on my mouth and my genetile ,, I know nothing about this illness and I appreciate any info. My main concern is my mother, we live in a same house should I let her know about my situation?!

    1. Hey ivan, I was told yesterday that I have herpes (genital) but the doctor did no tests. She told me based off of what it looks like. I freaked out of course. Im 21 and still live at home with my dad. I ended up going home and had to break it to him that I am sexually active and that I got herpes. But now I am thinking that since I actually haven’t been tested do I really have it? Or could I be extremely lucky and it be something else. Idk. But everyone has different opinions on whether or not they should tell their parent.

  39. Thank God for this article. At last i can breathe and stop feeling like i am dieing tomorrow. Got my results today and tested positive for HSV 1 on the genitals. I am so relieved to hear that i may never get an outbreak on the genitals ever again. I dont even know how i got it in the first place.

  40. But Doctor Gunter, should i consider my sexual life doomed now that i have tested positive for HSV 1? Am i sexually healthy or not?

  41. So I was wondering I’m 16 and I’m a virgin and I’ve had theses cold sores happening to me since childhood .. I’m guessing I got it from drinking the same cup as my godmother when she had it. But there is not way possible to get rid of this virus 😦 I mean it sucks I walk around and ppl look at me like we she has herpes and I’m a virgin hahahah .. How is a cold sore different froma a canker sore?

    1. Cold sores are due to the herpes virus, typically type 1 (they are also called fever blisters by some). Many people get the sore sore virus when they were a child from daycare or elementary school (lots of slobber). You can be infectious, meaning spread the virus, even when you don;t have a fever blister so it is very hard to know who you got it from. By the age of 30 most people have it, so you could get it from kissing a parent, a sibling etc.

      A canker sore is mouth ulcer and it looks a little different from a cold sore (cold sores scab over at the end and canker sores do not). Canker sores can be caused by trauma (biting the lip), viruses (not herpes), and for some people they run in families. The medical term for canker sore is apthous stomatitis. Here is some more info

  42. Can a person get herpes 2 from a person who has herpes type 1? I have only been with one person and his Dr said he has herpes 1 and my Dr said I have herpes type 2. I am so confused! Can you please explain this to me?

    1. I don’t believe that all herpes is a “sexually transmitted ” virus as the good Dr. Gunter’s first sentence of this blog states so definitively.. I’m pretty certain that I didn’t contract my coldsore of the mouth sexually.

      Dr. Gunter then says in her posting on 7/31/13:
      “Cold sores are due to the herpes virus, typically type 1 (they are also called fever blisters by some). Many people get the sore sore virus when they were a child from daycare or elementary school (lots of slobber). You can be infectious, meaning spread the virus, even when you don;t have a fever blister so it is very hard to know who you got it from. By the age of 30 most people have it, so you could get it from kissing a parent, a sibling etc.”

      It’s important that we use our words wisely especially when

    2. I don’t believe that all herpes is a “sexually transmitted ” virus as the good Dr. Gunter’s first sentence of this blog states so definitively.. I’m pretty certain that I didn’t contract my coldsore of the mouth sexually.

      Dr. Gunter then says in her posting on 7/31/13:
      “Cold sores are due to the herpes virus, typically type 1 (they are also called fever blisters by some). Many people get the sore sore virus when they were a child from daycare or elementary school (lots of slobber). You can be infectious, meaning spread the virus, even when you don;t have a fever blister so it is very hard to know who you got it from. By the age of 30 most people have it, so you could get it from kissing a parent, a sibling etc.”

      It’s important that we use our words wisely especially when communicating in a public forum

  43. Now I just read that if you have type 1 and have a cold sore and have oral sex with your girlfriend she will get type 2 herpes. Is this true?

    1. Type 1 and 2 are different strains of the same virus. Type 1 doesn’t become type 2 simply because it is on your genitalia. If you have type 1 and preform oral sex on your gf she could get type 1 down there, but not type 2 as the two viruses are different. Type 1 is weaker in the genetalia and type 2 is weaker in the mouth, but ultimately both strains are relatively harmless. While incurable medicines like valtrex can suppress, and shorten outbreaks. Generally outbreaks will become farther and farther apart over time, because your body adapts and is able to eliminate the new outbreak faster.

  44. Herpes also is a virus that needs a host to survive so it has been deemed impossible, or atleast almost 99% unlikely to get the virus from a nonliving object. Really the stigma attached to herpes is uncalled for seeing as almost all adults will get herpes just from making out with numerous people in college anyways. The true problems can come if the virus spreads to your eyes, which is unlikely, but can happen if you preform masturbation on a partner then rub your eyes. still, the infection is very weak. Hiv is another virus that can’t survive outside of the human body for long. obviously if you have herpes i would not use a towel on my genitals then immediately allow someone to use that towel, but it is unlikely that it would survive for any real amount of time outside of a warm body. Personally i think that medical advances are such that STDS and other viruses will be curable within the next 10 years. Really it seems like a shocking discovery, but it is pretty harmless albeit embarrassing.

  45. You’re awesome! More doctors should blog. This is some of the clearest, reliable information about Herpes-1 I’ve been able to find.

    A could questions. In a comment above, you write, “Herpes type 2 can rarely be transferred vertically, from mother to child, during birth”. Can Herpes type 1 be transmitted similarly?

    Also, I’ve seen and heard people say that Herpes isn’t that big a deal. It’s an STD, and permanent, but aside from occasional itchy and irritating sores, the main other damage is a very small chance of a birth complication which could require a C-section. Is this true? And is there anywhere I could look up those odds?

    1. Question 1. If a doctor suspects herpes (either type) and sores/lesions are present, would they swab first or blood test?
      Question 2. If doctor suspected hsv2 in mouth (sores in back tongue) would be reason to perform blood work for std? Does dr think its syphilis? Why blood work and not swab? …sorry that was 4 questions. Thx.

  46. i just recived my test result yesterday and i am still shocked by the news ! i have a question can Herpes type 1 “genitle” transfere to your partner mouth by Kissing her !

    i really feel better when i read your blogs, thank you all for this valuable information.

  47. gf just had culture test done on vagina and came back positive for hsv-1. I have been w her 6 months and have no symptoms…I have never had a cold sore or gone down on her. is it possible I have hsv-1 in genital area and transmitted it to her ? I have never had any symptoms. no initial outbreak nothing…..I can say this with certainty. if I go get the blood test I will still be unsure as to where The virus is located….please help thx

  48. Hey doctor your blog has helped me and calmed my nerves down but I tested positive for HSV1 and yet I have had about 3 to 5 outbreaks in one year below the belt…

  49. ok i have a question. What if someone was diagnosed with genital herpes but there doctor never told them what type it was how do you go bout finding out. Also if your first out break is really bad what are the chances of you having another break out? I ask cause i know someone who got the virus back in 2008 had a bad out break and to this day has not had any more out breaks?

  50. “Herpes is a sexually transmitted virus that primarily infects the mouth and the genitals. It is transmitted by bodily fluids – penetration isn’t required for transmission, oral-oral or oral-genital contact will suffice”.
    Can you please tell me more detail about this?

  51. “90% of the population is positive for herpes 1 and about 16% is positive for herpes 2”

    I though herpes 2 is more popular than HSV1, hmm interesting

  52. Well I went to the doctor for painful blisters on my vagina and they cultured it and it says I have herpes type 1. Is that even possible

  53. okay, even though i read the article, I’m still confused… I didn’ know it until afterwards, but I kissed my friend who has herpes (dont know what type) but there was no spit-swapping and she had no cold sores or anything, and then later that night I kissed my boyfriend… Now we’re both worried we have herpes…
    I am entirely new to this and I have no idea what to think or do.
    Do you think I have herpes or would i be okay because we didnt full on make-out and she didnt have any visible sores?
    Any light shed on this issue would be greatly appreciated.

  54. Hi I was just wondering if u have herpies hsv1 should u still be allowed to work in a daycare

  55. Please help!!I’m worry bcuz I’m only 17 and I have had coldsores on lips as long as I remember. Last week I got one and it bleed and clean the blood with towel. I forgot to wash the towel and I cleaned my biking area with it and still had blood from the day before. I’m really scared I’m a virgin and.I alreaDy have a hard time dealing with herpes labial can it be transmitted? ??in this way?

  56. You have to tell your partner being honest cause what is in the dark will come to the light i just told my husband a couple of days ago and feel alot better be honest that is the key hideing it and what if you have a out brake then what ? For hideing it

  57. Dear Dr. Gunter,

    I recently began seeing a girl who has HSV-2 in her genital region. Before we did anything more than kiss she told me of her condition, and that she was in the middle of an outbreak. We did not have sex, nor did I giver her oral sex. She, however, did give me oral sex, and my hands were near her vagina for a short period of time. Afterwards she insisted I wash up, and I did (my face, hands, genitals, and thighs just to be on the safe side) and thoroughly. Today I have a sore throat, but no sores anywhere on me. Yesterday I spent most of the day traveling from a cool dry climate to a warm humid climate via airplanes and helicopters; drinking mostly alcohol, and sleeping very little. The little I did sleep was in a crapy hotel, and I also had contact with my father who has been complaining of a sore throat. I first noticed the sore throat today (friday morning), and the last time I had contact with her was Wednesday afternoon. Can the disease even show symptoms, or show up on a test, that soon? Do you think I could have contracted the virus somehow, and it’s showing up in the form of a sore throat as opposed to the typical sores?

    Every part of me tells me this is just a reaction to me being run down, and in changing environments. However, I am justtrying to be on the cautious side May you please offer me some advice on this issue, or answer any of my questions? Thank you.

    Very Respectfully,

    1. You sound like you are afraid of catching her germs. What do you thinkwould happen if you had sex with someone with herpes? She told ypu about before sex you took the risk now deal with it. Paranoia isn’t the answer. You were stupid not to think clearly and if you do get herpes I can see you blaming her when its really your fault. She did everything right…you didn’t. Then you freak on her after she finally felt comfortable with you. After you had sex. That’s not fair and I hope you never get herpes because boy are you in for a rude awakening…

  58. Dr. Gunter,
    Can you explain more precisely what you mean by “herpes 1 on your labia or penis, this is mostly likely going to be a one shot deal”, Do you mean that the virus is gone? Do you mean that the symptoms won’t return? Can I still be infectious for others? Do you have any statistics or published papers that you can refer us to?

    1. Don’t try to play that game man…you know very well that neither herpes versions have a cure so keep dreaming. What she is talking about is the frequency of outbreaks. It could be a one shot deal or multiple outbreaks because you never know. Hsv1 typically doesn’t cause to bad of breakouts but I have a friend that gets monthly outbreaks of hsv1 so thats quite subjective. Hsv
      1 also sheds less then hsv 2 in the genitals. So no your not cured but now you know what she meant.

  59. Hello Dr. Gunter,

    First, thank you for giving your time and energy to helping us deal with herpes. I’ve been searching the internet for some reliable information, and it looks like you may be just the source. I was diagnosed with herpes over 30 years ago and, to be honest, I don’t know whether it was 1 or 2. My first outbreak was severe, with less severe recurrences that dwindled in frequency over the years. Until now, my last outbreak was in 2006. All of my outbreaks have been genital. I’m in a monogamous relationship with a man who also has a history of genital herpes. His last outbreak was over 10 hears ago. Both of us thought we were over outbreaks – ha! A couple weeks ago I was a little sore after a bike ride and really didn’t think any more of it than that until I got the tell-tale tingly, painful blisters, accompanied by body aches and pains and flu-like symptoms. I got a prescription of acyclovir and my symptoms improved within 24 hours. Then my partner started feeling achy and developed a large blistery sore on his tongue. His symptoms have snowballed to include intense body aches, crawling skin sensations, sore throat, headache, blisters on his nose and forehead, and the sensation of blisters in his nasal passages. Before now he’s never had oral herpes, and his genital outbreaks were never accompanied by other symptoms. His medical insurance sucks, so he’s trying to ride it out, but I’m getting really concerned because every day seems to bring a new horrific symptom. We’re both wondering why his outbreak is so intense, and why it occurred in his mouth and upper body. Yes, we did have oral sex immediately prior to my breakout. Can you shed any light on this situation and give us any advice in terms of treatment?

    Thanks so much for your help with this,

  60. i have the virus for over 10years and it normally out as sores but lately it happens that if i have sex even with condom it comes out like reddish without sores and dry ,when i peel off the upper skin it will look smooth and shiny it as well breaks giving open lines of wounds what can i do i about this.

  61. in 2008 I was diagnosed with type 2 diabetes. Shortly after, I had the worst recurrent cold sore problem you could imagine. Once i got it below the belt, and i didn’t even have sex, talk about being gypped. I’ve had cold sores since i was a kid, but never this bad. Zovirax did nothing at all. I went on 1gram twice a day of Valtrex and it seems to be the only thing that works. The back pain i would have a week before the outbreak i would not wish on an enemy. Last September 2014 my doctor sent me to an endocrinologist because my blood sugar was so out of control. She did a c-peptide test and an antibody test, and come to find out I’m type 1. I’m wondering if the herpes caused this type 1 diabetes, I really wonder. The more i read about this, the more i think that the diabetes wore down my immune system, causing VIRULENT herpes cold sores on my mouth, and the virus caused me to make antibodies that killed my beta cells. But there’s no doubt in any physician’s mind that I am type 1 and not 2.

  62. Firstly, HSV 1 is incredibly common, it’s a who does not have it type of thing, so don’t beat yourself up over it, it’s called the kissing disease, my doctor has it, he told me, “I have HSV 1, it’s not going to kill me”

    HSV 2 – it is a skin condition, take your Valtrex and be done with it. It’s a Cold or Sore Throat, they are the same thing. Don’t let media make myths about how “terrible” it is, when it is NOT.

    I had mine for ages, so long in fact my antibodies did not show up even when I was having a cluster of blisters, I tested 3 times and bang.

    A combination of prednisolone (steroids), antibiotics and inhaler (steroids) brought my immunity down and I had a case of a dormant virus coming to life.

    There are other cases of people taking oral steroids then having their HSV’s wake up.

    Making a mountain of a molehill, or as my doctor said, don’t make a molehill out of a mound.

    It’s not life threatening, (rarely), be cool, you are not going to be alone forever, I had my HSV 1 20 years ago when I was in the military, and 2? That was 10 years ago, I did not even know. In fact my antibodies were negative, for whatever reason they can drop to the “you are negative range”

    It won’t kill you, drop the stigma of something that can’t kill you, unless you want to be a person that has 3 months to live because of cancer.

    After the tests, my wife tested positive for 2, negative for 1, what did the doctor say? (You both don’t kiss enough)

    It’s a skin condition, and that may show up once in awhile.

    1. I feel Soo much better… I’ve been crying for days I have both…I literally wanted to die I felt so disgusted and ashamed and dirty… I felt like my life was over…but reading the blogs I feel a little comfort and self worth because I’m not alone as I was feeling….so thank you for easing my mind just little….even though all of u are complete strangers lol you guys helped me….thanks!

  63. I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years and just a month ago he was forced to tell me he has herpes 2. He has had it for 17 years. I have had unprotected sex for the last 3 1/2 years. I went and got tested. Luckily my results came back negative for both 1 & 2. He said he has only had 1 outbreak in all these years and it was not bad at all. He does take valtrex half a pill daily. Is it normal after all these years to not ever have another outbreak? Its hard enough dealing with his miltiple lies and deception let alone feeling that he took my choice away but I have been doing alot of obsessive research and have yet to come across an answer to this question. Thank you

  64. I just found out I have hsv2 and I just want to die. I’m completely have lost motivation to live. This hsv2 will ruin my life. I won’t every marry, have kids. I feel like my life is over. I how this is a mistake!! I could live with hsv1 but hsv2 ruins lives I think. Especially for a single person.

    Don’t know what to do!


    1. You need to step your pussy or dick up if you let herpes stop you from living life. If the only reason someone would date you is because raw sex was in the future you got bigger problems then herpes…how about a case of low self-esteem.grow up and become the best person you can be. If your fine as hell people won’t care but if your average your life is over.

  65. my doctor said i have stage 1 …can j still spread it t my daughter by sharing drinks of food with her?

  66. My bf was recently diagnosed with herpes 1 and 2. He doesn’t want to touch not even a hug because he doesn’t want me to get infected. He is depressed. What can I say or do to make him feel better. I love him and even if I’m not infected I do not want to leave him.

  67. I’m beginning to beleive no one really knows the real ins and outs of either types of herpes! I was diagnosed with HSV1 genitally about 2 years ago. I was not online at the time and know really nothing about it. We have just recently signed back up and I have read way to many contridicting articles on this and I’m not sure what to beleive. Chicken pox is like the herpes virus as they both hide in the nervous system. So after you reach about 60 years old, it is said you can get shingles from having had chicken pox. What’s the difference? If you are diagnosed with herpes, it is just a shame. You have had sex with someone who had it. OMG!! You are a skank!! You have shingles, ” I’m so sorry you are in so much pain”. Sounds like the same virus to me. I can’t kiss my 2 smallest grandchildren any where on the face or their hands. I see their other grandparents kiss them on the lips. Their other grandmother just recently had the shingles. Is it safe for her to continue to kiss them in the mouth?

  68. Dear Doctor,
    I had one genital outbreak a year ago and nothing since. It happened 2 weeks after sleeping with someone after a year of being sexually inactive. He had no signs , no cold sores or anything else , although he did speak of being very ill with flu a few months previous to our meeting. He’s had nothing in the past year.

    Initial blood tests have shown negative but from what I have read, I think I must have H1 below the belt.
    If so, how does H1 pass? Can it be from genital to genital or must there be oral contact involved?
    I am also trying to think of the best way to explain this to any future partner and would like some clarification on how likely this is to be passed on.
    Thank you.

  69. Looking for the blog on dealing with herpes 2 mentioned at the end of this post, and the fact that this is all Greek to me. I was diagnosed with HSV-2 but have no symptoms. Had a full panel testing, at 60, single and divorced for 23 years, no dating, not sexually active and bam surprise everything came back negative but the HSV-2. Absolutely no symptoms and had this test done after a 21 day full body detox (DHerbs)… My head is spinning…

  70. HI, I recently found out I have type one but on my genital area not on my mouth where it’s commonly found. I had swabs taken the second day I had sores occur down there. Because they were so fresh they were able to determine that it is intact type 1. I was told that this is easier to deal with an Handel then if I were to have type 2 in the genital Area. How is this true if it intact is. I’m just looking for second opinions as I’m 23 an pregnant 21 weeks with my first baby. I’m just concerned because the first outbreak was so painful an unbearable I would like to know if this will keep occurring on a regular basis or if because it’s the first time it was the worst. Thank you for any help. I appreciate any feedback.

    1. Everyone is different.
      some people have break outs often and some people have never broke out. I have had 1 breakout but it is almost always tender. I have the same type as you and also in the genital area. Thank God I am past the child bearing years. I have no idea how this will affect your baby but keep your doctor appointments and be sure to ask them how this will affect your baby. I have heard it is hader on babies than adults.

  71. I have oral herpes on my tongue and have test positive for Type-2 but have not had any symptoms related to it or on my genital area. I’ve read oral herpes is type 1 so a bit confused. Does this mean I will only have breakouts in my mouth?

  72. I have type 2 ,I’m called a rapid cycler, having outbreaks on a monthly basis,but recently started getting the sore one tongue and inside cheek,about the same time I’m having a vaginal outbreak. …so how do I know if it’s 1or 2,or just a canker sore,very confused.

  73. At the very least this is such an unexact science! I have been tested and diagnosed with hsv2, a couple of years ago. Since the, I have had to man up and disclose to all I have dated. I have never seen an outbreak to my memory. Several women, who seemed to be very interested in a relationship at first, all but ran from me. I recently became reunited with a hometown GF and we were all about a new life together. She even seemed unaffected at first after a I told her, but that changed in a few days. I honestly am very down right now, I want another chance at a stellar relationship and to be in love again.
    I need to know how to reassure her that there is a way to have a life together and not infect her as well. IS THIS A POSSIBILTY???

  74. I’m a African American women and I have 1 n 2, my question is why does my lips turn black when I have an outbreak?

  75. Hello, when i got pregnant i was diagnosed with herpes and by reading this blog i guess i have herpes type 2, i was really devastated but i learn to. Accepted myvquestion is i was on medication during pragnancy to stop the outbreaks should i still be on the pill to prevent the out break or when i have the outbreak i should get the medication??

  76. I wAS recently diagnosed with herpes 1 on my vaginal area…we have not had oral sex in almost a year…however he used his spit for lube one night…omg he’ll for me 8 days later… He used his spit many times in the past years and I never had a problem. Why all of the sudden? Now I feel like I’m some gross person. We haven’t made love now for over 2 months since. We were going to the other night again no lube and he doesn’t want to use anything else now…he blames himself as I have never even had a cold sore…I was actually happy to hear it was type 1…so was he but our sex life is totally non exsistent now.

  77. I was diagnosed with HSV2 3 days ago.. Since then I’ve been stressing horribly.. I havent seen anything on my bottom. But I see it on my eyes little white pimples. My eyes aren’t running they’re dry.. I’m confused because I don’t know how it’s affecting my eye

  78. I used to have real bad outbreaks doctor. Told me to keep stress level down.. Take the acylovir pills when u can and. Viaderm cream worked well . Blisters were painful was nightmare have been clear for a year with very minor outbreaks some tingling.But was worried and stressed for long time. Much more manageable dont get discouraged ..good luck all!

  79. My have hsv 1 my genitals for the first time. My boyfriend has HSV-1 In his mouth. Want to know if I could give him hsv 1 on his genitals if he already has ages he one of his mouth???

  80. Hello,

    I had a Treponema pallidum IGG+IGM test that came back “nonreactive”. After speaking with my doctor over the phone, he remarked, “you know about the HSV1.” I am 30 and have never had this diagnosis, a cold sore, or any indication of a problem. He also said that I probably was exposed in childhood. My question is” Why did my IGG an IGM come back as nonreactive for the Treponema pallidum test if there are HSV antibodies present? Do you think I should receive a second opinion?

  81. So if a person antibodies shows negative but equivocal shows positive. Does this mean they have it?? Or no?

  82. I’ve had coldsores since I was a small virgin child… That mean I can still infect people with HSV1?

  83. Is it possible that I got both hsv1 & 2 and only 2 was active and 1 was dormant? How long does it take from getting the vius to have the first outbreak? I must have goten it from my ex.

  84. If someone has herpes on the penis, . him and his girlfriend stop having sex, but still kiss alot.
    Can he give her herpes in the mouth or on the lips.

  85. I thought I had a pimple and I gave oral sex to my male partner the next day i notices it was a cold sore does this mean my partners now has something .?

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